How long does it take you to get bored with having sex with a partner?

Split: Ronan Keating and wife Yvonne
10 April 2012

It's not easy to make a marriage work — as Ronan Keating is finding out. It has taken 12 years but it seems he has got itchy feet and he and his wife, Yvonne, have announced their separation. Now reports have come out linking Ronan to a much younger dancer, 26-year-old Francine Cornell. Of course, there could be any number of reasons why Ronan's marriage has broken down but lots of us will have surely experienced a 12-year — or perhaps even four-year or four-month — itch. So I went to Soho to find out just how long it takes before Londoners get bored with having sex with a partner.

ONE SESSION, OR YEARS
Rachel, 30, psychologist

It depends how good or bad they are. If they're bad, once. If they're good, longer. I would guess years, although if there's no improvement it's eventually going to go south.

IT DEPENDS
Ronnie, 39, web developer

It's a complicated answer. It depends on the person and how much you are in love with them. If it's the right guy, never. For everybody else it would depend how good the sex is.

THREE YEARS
Andrea, 34, consultant

I have a terrible track record of, after three years, either dumping them or cheating on them with someone who is better at sex.

10 MINUTES
Sandile, 29, radiologist

If it's really bad sex, then about 10 minutes.

FOR EVER
Val, 32, theatre practitioner

If I'm having sex with her, then that means I'm enjoying it and that could go on for ever, really. If it's good sex, then let it go on.

18 MONTHS
Lydia, 26, student

From previous experience I'd say about 18 months to two years. After that, you just kind of lose the spark. Or they get fat.

DON'T KNOW
Emily, 26, drugs counsellor

I've been having sex with the same person for eight years and I'm not bored yet.

A YEAR
Pedro, 40, teacher

After that I get tingly. You start to get frisky with other people. I'm speaking from experience.

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